The fastest way to ruin what might have been a successful friendship is to lie. Hide the fact that you are a single father of 4 year-old twins, and you will definitely miss a potential relationship.

Yes, the intentions behind dishonesty is sometimes genuine. It’s a father who fears that the only way to land a potential date is to stretch the truth… Hoping that the potential mate will see past that lie after a connection is made. Well; it won’t. Dishonesty will always be caught sooner or later. Allow others to make informed decisions about what they will and will not accept, based on an honest representation of yourself. Be truthful and avoid the pain, heartache, disappointment and separation caused by dishonesty. Open yourself to incredible happiness by allowing others to love you as you are, for who you are.

2) Spend time on the text for your personal ad

Create an attention -getting headline which stands out above the rest, and demands to be read. There are many, many 'DWF's, 39, seeking love out there. Be unique, even if you happen to be a 'DWF, 39 and seeking love.

Check out the competition, and determine what attracts you to their ads. You will usually find that those which stand out have clarity and are original, personal, and direct. What can you say about yourself in a single sentence which makes you irresistible to the opposite sex?

3) Be Specific

Ok - Almost everyone seems to enjoy 'moonlit walks, candlelight dinners, and strolls on the beach'. When writing a description of what you’re looking for in a future partner, be specific about values held and sought, in addition to naming hobbies and interests. If you want kids in the future, say it. Willing to relocate, add it in. Love for travel; by all means add it in.

4) Be Positive

Let your love for life shine through in your writing.

5.) The Photo - Make sure it's a good one!

Take time, and put a LOT of effort into getting your photo right, it’s definitely worth it!

6.) Be proactive

Search for and email people, don't wait for them to email you. Be prepared to spend some money to contact people and join online dating sites. I’ve listed the best online dating sites I’ve found on this site.